|
|
| Information |
|
|
The Art of Negotiation in 535 words
I want to get better at negotiation, but where to start? UK Amazon currently has 2332 books on negotiation. Google indexed nearly 4 million relevant (yeah right) pages. All I need is a simple, straightforward model that I can put to use now. Phased by the glut of information, I went within and remembered the wise teachings from a senior manager in my early working life. So, come closer, listen up, because he was very wise indeed? He said "Do you know your LIMits?" "My what? said I cautiously, wondering if he was asking about my drinking capacity, driving speed or something equally off the wall. Being worldlier than I, he noticed my confusion and helped me out. "Lyndsay, if you want to be successful in life, you need to know your LIMits. Let me explain. What would you Like to have? What do you Intend to have? What Must you have? What are your LIMit's?" Slowly it dawned on me that he was talking the strange management language of mnemonics. He wrote down the word for me like this. L And next to the letters he wrote L - like to have: your number 1, top of the pile, best outcome (The I,T and S are irrelevant, just convenient additions to prevent asking what your LIM are!) Testing the Theory And so ended his lesson. Off I scampered like the eager young graduate I was, itching to put this into practice. Thinking about a possible secondment opportunity I wrote the following: Like - 10% bonus, new laptop, mentoring with new senior manager The final deal I struck landed somewhere between Like and Intend, with a few perks I had not even considered, so I felt it was a success. Why Negotiation Works There are a couple of reasons why simple models are useful but often forgotten. The LIMits negotiation model encourages flexible thinking in that there are 3 potential good outcomes. Compare this with the most common alternative - success or failure - and you can see there is only 1 measly good outcome. You don't have to be a gambling pro to work out which approach is best! The secret of the LIMits model is if you don't meet all the criteria for success, then the opposite is not failure, just a different outcome. The other benefit of using the LIMits negotiation model is it forces you to prepare, gaining you vital spare capacity when you are in the thick of the negotiation. You will be clear about your position and better able to get that across. As I demonstrated, simple models are forgotten because we seek out newer, shinier ideas in books, the internet or from other sources. Reduce information overload by re-using what you already know or recycling an old idea into one that works today. Old knowledge is not always redundant. So, negotiate that new job, better deal or contract. All you need is to know your LIMits.
Lyndsay Swinton is an experienced team leader, people manager and business coach. Her website is www.mftrou.com - 'Management for the rest of us'. Subscribe to her free no-nonsense Management Tips newsletter at mftrou.com today.
Latest News:Site: Yahoo! News Search Results for news [News] 5 O'Clock Shadow News you can't leave work without: Asamoah makes a deal News of record News of record reports for Chelan and Douglas counties Newport News police seek help on wave of thefts from cars NEWPORT NEWS A rash of summer-night car break-ins and vandalism has police asking the public for help, and warning them to lock their vehicles. Newport News hit with rash of car break-ins NEWPORT NEWS -- Police are asking for help in solving a large number of car break-ins and vandalism cases in Newport News. According to police, 134 cases were reported in the area between J. Clyde Morris Blvd. and Oyster Point Road since June 1. Most of the incidents were between J. Clyde Morris and Middle Ground Blvd. and happened during the early evening hours. Police say many thefts happened ... NEWS ALERTS: Sign up to get breaking news on your mobile phone Get breaking local news as it happens. Enter your phone number: Standard Messaging Rates or other charges apply. To Opt-out text STOP to 4INFO (44636). For more information text HELP to 4INFO (44636). Contact your carrier for more details. Powered by 4INFO. Newport News police search for suspects in string of car thefts Newport News detectives are seeking assistance from the Community, in solving a large number of cases involving damage to, and larcenies from, cars. News in brief Here are a selection of brief news items from this week?s paper edition, and possibly a few news briefs that didn?t make it in the paper. Newport News townhouse damaged by fire NEWPORT NEWS A townhouse in the 1000 block of Willow Green Drive was damaged by fire this morning, fire officials said. One of the residents had minor burns to his hand, a Fire Department news release says. An off-duty city firefighter/medic helped evacuate the adjoining homes. News of the Past who has deep genealogical roots to Winston County, provides news from past editions of the Winston County Journal. The Winston County Board of Supervisors posted a notice of the new "Dog Law" which was passed in the July term. News Wrap: Afghan Passenger Bus Bombing Kills at Least 25 Listen to the Audio In other news Wednesday, a roadside bomb killed at least 25 passengers and wounded 20 others when it hit a bus in southern Afghanistan. Also, due to furloughs, California state workers will be forced to take an extra three unpaid days off every month until the Legislature adopts a budget. HARI SREENIVASAN: A bus packed with passengers hit a roadside bomb in Southern ... Site: news - Google News Arizona News Round Up - San Francisco Chronicle (blog)
MORE RESOURCES: Site: Yahoo! News Search Results for negotiation Aharon Adibekyan: Armenia has to withdraw from Karabakh negotiation process ?Withdrawal from negotiation process will alter Armenia?s image of an ?aggressor?, also offering Karabakh a possibility to make own decisions on its fate,? Adibekyan stated. Arab Peace Initiative Committee agrees on direct negotiation Arab Peace Initiative Committee agreed in a meeting Thursday on direct negotiation between Palestinians and Israel, leaving starting date to Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas. China, Japan conduct first round of negotiation on East China Sea issue China and Japan on Tuesday conducted the first round of negotiation on the implementation of the principles of consensus concerning the East China Sea issue. eft.com This evidence includes, but is not limited to, the Price Negotiation Memorandum, a set of exculpatory materials that Agility says the government has tried to conceal from the public for more than three years. 'Desperate Housewives' end date is 'in negotiation' "Desperate Housewives" doesn't have a firm end date yet. It could in the relatively near future, though.Creator Marc Cherry says that he can see the series lasting a couple more seasons, "but I don't want to try and match 'Gunsmoke's' record.""It's in negotiation -- that's all I can tell you," Cherry says of an end date for "Housewives." "ABC is talking to people. ... There are meetings going on ... Turkey hopes to start negotiation over Iran's nuclear issue Turkish Foreign Minister Ahmet Davutoglu said Sunday he hopes negotiation will start between Iran and the so-called P5+1, the veto-wielding UN powers of Britain, China, France, Russia and the United States, plus Germany. Scarborough Police Explorers earn high marks in first aid Of 120 teams competing in events ranging from bomb threat response to hostage negotiation, Scarborough's team took fourth place in emergency field first aid. Teacher's Union and PCSSD negotiations stall Lawyers for the Pulaski County Special School District and the Teacher's Union agreed that after a day of negotiation, they will agree to disagree. SISTERS IN BUSINESS, THE POWER OF NEGOTIATION!, WEEK OF JULY 29-AUGUST 4, 2010 Do you remember the first time you bought a car? Were you young with no credit and little money? Were you older with bad credit and no money? Either way, you didn't boldly approach the salesman with a deal. You probably had more of a crossed-fingered; I hope they do business with me strategy. Iceland tells EU: "We keep control of fishing" ICELAND has told the European Union that its fishing grounds are not open to negotiation and must remain under the control of the Reykjavik Government. Site: negotiation - Google News Still no agreement on Mayweather and Pacquiao fight - Seer Press
|
|
|
|
RELATED ARTICLES
Can a Corporate Executive Really Use The Beautiful Mind; To guide decision making? I would like to comment on the "A Beautiful Mind" movie and the book, which was actually much better. I just finished reading another book on the similar side of John Nashs' assertion of working together rather than competing against. Win-Win Power Negotiating Let's talk about win-win negotiating. Instead of trying to dominate the other person and trick him into doing things he wouldn't normally do, I believe that you should work with the other person to work out your problems and develop a solution with which both of you can win. While Youre Waiting Not long ago, I made a partnership pitch, on behalf of an organization I represent, to another organization with similar interests. If the idea had come to fruition, it would have radically changed our organization. So Whats Your Argument? Arguments aren't always bad things. Sometimes They're used to convince someone of an important point they may not yet realize. Suppliers as Your Partners in Cost Reduction This article is one of the many articles still to come in which I will discuss very basic yet proven techniques that you could use immediately in your encounters with your suppliers.Oh but wait, to find any value in this article, you must be a firm believer that Purchasing strategies have evolved from just 1) focusing on price and 2) focusing on quality, reliability, responsiveness and total cost to a much broader focus of building supplier relationships. Just Ask! Ask and you shall receive & knock and it shall be opened &send an email and see what happens.As a student of personal finance you are probably familiar with the advice to negotiate with your credit card companies to get a lower interest rate. Do You Want a Paycheck or a Passion? 10 Qualities Managers are Looking for in Hiring You Based upon my research of over 300 managers in the last two years, I have found what qualities are most important to hiring managers.You will be in a more competitive advantage if you do a self-assessment to determine if you possess these qualities. Managing Conflict, in Life & Work: Using Ancient and Modern Approaches "Conflict" is a word that can have varying degrees of severity, meaning, and implication for each individual or circumstance. For example, the conflict that is experienced in our current, daily lives seems insignificant in comparison to the Samurai, or those in war, who faced death on a regular basis. The Six Rs for Changing MInds and Overcoming Resistance This article borrows from Howard Gardner's book, "Changing Minds" (2004). In order to get people in conflict to cooperate or collaborate sufficiently to settle or resolve their differences, and perhaps achieve reconciliation, it is necessary that they change their minds. Negotiating Skills: Ask For More Than You Expect To Get It creates some negotiating room, and you might just get what you're asking for.Whether playing the role of buyer or seller in a sales transaction, asking for more than you expect to get is a classic opening position in negotiations. Negotiating Tactics: How To Strike A Negotiable Opening Shot There is no right or wrong to fire up your opening negotiation.. The Art of Negotiation in 535 words I want to get better at negotiation, but where to start? UK Amazon currently has 2332 books on negotiation. Google indexed nearly 4 million relevant (yeah right) pages. How To Make An Inflexible Bureaucrat See You As A Person Inflexible Bureaucrats Are Characterized by:1. Cares little about your happiness in life2. The Art of Haggling Did you know that at one time in this country that there were no fixed prices on anything. You would go into a store and find an item you needed then you would begin the process of negotiating the price. A One Stop Financial Solution Amy Wright, 34, was extatic when her realtor showed her the three bedroom townhome overlooking the lushious golf course. It was exactly the home she was looking for. Making the Deal: Women as Negotiators Negotiating is no game. It is not for the weak or the fragile. Four Ways To Work Out Business Disputes Business owners have four options to resolve disputes with partners, vendors or customers. Each option is based on different assumptions, and entails a different cost. Business: Keys To Negotiating Well Whether it's buying a car, asking for a pay rise, saying 'no' to a friend or renting an apartment - at some stage in our lives we all are going to need to know how to negotiate. Yet, so few of us know the basic skills before embarking on life changing purchases or decisions! These 8 keys will assist you negotiate well. The Most Powerful Persuasion Skill Youll Ever Learn Criteria ElicitationThis is without a doubt the most important persuasion skill that you can learn. If you'll learn to apply this to every situation in which you find yourself you'll be amazed at the positive results! Many of the hypnotic skills I'll be sharing with you have a parallel in old sales training techniques. Neogtiation: How to be Right Without Making Other People Wrong What exactly are we trying to accomplish by proving to others that we're right? We might win the argument but ultimately lose the relationship. Perhaps a better, deeper-rooted question is this: Why do we lose sight of success, of our big objective, when we feel challenged or intimidated?When I prepare to negotiate, provide a service or turn my employees' talent into performance, I know deep down that if I make people feel valuable they will see my input as having value.
|
| Home | Site Map | Resource Links |
