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How to Negotiate Effectively
You may be thinking, "Gary, I am a mom, housewife, or stay-at-home dad, so why do I need to know how to negotiate effectively?" I'm glad you asked. The truth is everyone needs to negotiate. Surprisingly, almost everything we do the moment we get up in the morning until we go to bed involves some type of "negotiating". I know, you are saying that I have lost my mind, but no, seriously, we do negotiate -continuously. Let's say, you are 18 years old, live with your parents, yet work. So, you wake up at 6 am, and begin a negotiation with your younger brother, who is already in the very bathroom that you need in order to take a shower and get ready for work. To avoid arriving late to work, you quickly offer to pay $5.00 to him to leave the bathroom immediately so that you can take a shower. Next, you head into the kitchen to negotiate with your mother over your preference for orange juice and toast for breakfast, while she is counter-negotiating a complete meal of oatmeal, eggs, milk, and sausage. Who wins this negotiation is anyone's guess. The point is that all of us constantly negotiate. For example, we negotiate - or should -- with our car mechanic to lessen the cost of maintenance and repairs. Soooo ?. to help you succeed in your negotiations, I have prepared this special article that will outline the tools and knowledge you need to succeed. First, you need to know "what is a negotiation." Simply put, it is the exchange of ideas with the intention of changing relationships, agreements, or viewpoints. Negotiation requires ? 1. Calmness Remember that negotiation requires that you give something of perceived value in order to receive something of value. Negotiation may be giving up something today for a later advantage. Here is a short list of non-aggressive negotiation strategies: Know what you want Know what the other side wants Note the "feelings" of your opponent Verbally accept the opponent's viewpoint Give your opinion and ask for opponent's opinion Give positive comments and ask for positive comments Respect differences of opinion Verbally express "how" the two sides are similar Strive to reach "mutual" benefits Build a strong relationship for future negotiations Be sure to note ? ?the tone of your voice. ?how you pronounce your words. ?your own body language. ?your opponent's body language. Finally, remember that you should always keep the relationship positive so that you can return and negotiate another day. Copyright 2005 - Gary E. Cain - All Rights Reserved Worldwide Gary is a business teacher and Internet marketer. He owns and operates his own language school in Brazil. Gary has written two books: Stop the Grammar and Internet Self Defense. Gary provides forward-thinking and "already put it in practice" tutorials for home-based Internet businesses that are seeking information and free web tools to maximize sales and revenue. Please take a moment to visit his website at http://www.dollarsforever.com and consider subscribing to Gary's Dollarsforever Ezine. As a subscriber to his Ezine you will receive his monthly, high-quality tutorials delivered directly to your email inbox.
Latest News:Site: Yahoo! News Search Results for news Myanmar's Suu Kyi to get family letters, news mags (Reuters via Yahoo! News) Detained Myanmar opposition leader Aung San Suu Kyi has managed to wring small concessions from the ruling generals in the form of letters from her family and some international news magazines, her lawyer said on Friday. SEC Looks Into UAL Stock Scare; Implications For Online News? (CBS News) A ton of digits have been devoted to this in other spots but the SEC's decision to investigate takes it to another level. The backstory: a six-year-old news story about UAL declaring bankruptcy made it into the Tribune-owned Sun-Sentinel 's current news flow, was picked up by a Google (NSDQ: GOOG) News bot and, via a reporter for a newsletter, made it onto Bloomberg News. After a lot of buck ... JCDecaux in talks for News Outdoor Group in Russia (AP via Yahoo! News) French outdoor advertising firm JCDecaux SA said Thursday it is negotiating to buy Russian rival News Outdoor Group from global media company News Corp. News Corp tightens grip on Premiere with new CEO (Reuters via Yahoo! News) Rupert Murdoch tightened his grip on German pay-TV broadcaster Premiere by appointing News Corp executive Mark Williams as CEO in a move to get the company back on track. Phila. mayor to announce grim budget news (The Philadelphia Inquirer) The Nutter administration is expected to announce grim budget news today, which is all but certain to lead to significant spending cuts - perhaps as high as 10 percent - in some city departments, according to three sources familiar with the budget. Help News pick Stadium's greatest moment (New York Daily News) The News is marking the countdown to the final game at The House That Ruth Built by reflecting on Yankee Stadium's greatest moments - and we're asking you - the reader - to help us pick out the best of the best. JCDecaux and News Corp. in talks to combine outdoor ad groups (International Herald Tribune) The News Corp. chief executive, Rupert Murdoch, has recently expressed nervousness about investments in Russia, where News Outdoor generated the bulk of its revenue last year. SEC Looks Into UAL Stock Scare; Implications For Online News? (paidContent.org via Yahoo! Finance) A ton of digits have been devoted to this in other spots but the SEC's decision to investigate takes it to another level. The backstory: a six-year-old news story about UAL declaring bankruptcy made it into the Tribune-owned Sun-Sentinel's current news flow, was picked up by a Google News bot and, via a reporter for a newsletter, made it onto Bloomberg News. JCDecaux in talks to buy News Corp. billboard unit (AP via Yahoo! Finance) In a deal that would create the world's largest outdoor advertising company, French conglomerate JCDecaux SA said Thursday that it is in talks to buy Russian rival News Outdoor Group from global media company News Corp. News Corp says Mark Williams interim Premiere CEO (Reuters via Yahoo! News) News Corp. executive Mark Williams has taken over as chief executive of German pay-TV broadcaster Premiere in an interim capacity, News Corp. said after the move led to renewed takeover speculation. Site: news - Google News PRESS DIGEST-Australian General News - Dec 3 - Reuters
MORE RESOURCES: Site: Yahoo! News Search Results for negotiation Report: Israeli official says Jerusalem not on negotiation table (People's Daily) The future status of Jerusalem is not on the negotiation table between Israel and the Palestinians, local daily Ha'aretz quoted an Israeli official as saying Thursday. Earlier Thursday, Jack Walles, head of the American consulate in Jerusalem, was quoted by a Palestinian newspaper as saying that Israel has agreed to discuss the question of the holy city in the peace talks with the Palestinian ... AM Topic: Salary Negotiation (AskMen) When you're trying to secure a new position in your career, salary negotiation is often considered one of the trickiest steps -- it's also one of the most important. You don't want to turn off your potential employers and make them rescind their offer. Hostage/Crisis Negotiation Training Seminar at ECU (The Daily Ardmoreite) A three-day Hostage/Crisis Negotiation Training Seminar will be offered in Ada Sept. 26-28 by East Central University?s Tribal Police Training Program, ECU?s Psychology Department and the Council on Law Enforcement Education and Training. Wednesday is the last day to register. Philex says in negotiation for sale of shares (GMA News) MANILA, Philippines - Philex Mining Corp., the country's largest miner, on Friday disclosed that it is negotiating with foreign investors for the sale of shares that it acquired from a buy back program. Updated 9/11: Get facts, leave feedback on District 158 negotiation Web site (Algonquin Countryside) The public is invited to ask questions and leave comments about School District 158's ongoing teachers contract negotiations on a news and information Web site. Nuke negotiators hold breath on North Korea's situation (Asia News Network) As focus remained on the health of North Korean leader Kim Jong-il who reportedly suffered a stroke last month, Washington and Seoul yesterday (September 11) tuned into what effects it could have on the stalemated nuclear negotiation and strained inter-Korean relations. Latest Additions (The Barnstable Patriot) After months of negotiation the Cape Cod Baseball League and Major League Baseball Properties (MLBP) have reached an agreement that allows the CCBL to continue its use of trademarks of Major League Baseball teams, including the Hyannis Mets. Why real estate deals fall through (Newsday) Faulty Paperwork, failed home inspection, and bad credit are just some of the issues that can kill a successful negotiation. Serial Counterfeiter Arrested (Garden City News) Garden City Police announce the arrest of a serial counterfeiter who received a five-figure check for a fake Patek Philippe which he sold. Ian K. Kosloff, 31 walked into H.L. Gross & Brothers on Franklin Avenue on Aug. 6 to sell a watch he said was worth $20,000. After some negotiation, a jeweler wrote him a check for $12,500 in exchange for the stainless steel watch. Fitch Rates NCMC's (Colorado) $55.5MM Revs 'A+'; Outlook Stable (Centre Daily Times) Fitch Ratings has assigned an 'A+' underlying rating to the Colorado Health Facilities Authority's approximately $55.5 million hospital revenue bonds (NCMC, Inc. Project) series 2008A&B. The 2008A&B bonds are expected to sell via negotiation during the week of Oct. 14 and will be issued as variable-rate demand bonds backed by a letter of credit. In addition, Fitch has affirmed the underlying ... Site: negotiation - Google News Auto CEOs Aren't Making Their Case - Wall Street Journal
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