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Trial by Fire - 9 Tips for Grieving Couples
You will often hear that grief and loss bring couples together, but it can actually do just the opposite. It is possible to emerge on the other side of grief with a closer marriage, but it does take work. Here are some tips adapted from the book "Hope is Like the Sun: Finding Hope and Healing After Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Infant Death" that can help your marriage survive the stress of loss: 1. Give each other the freedom to grieve in an individual way. 2. Remember the good times. 3. Expect tough times. 4. Do not lash out at one another. 5. Prepare for change. 6. Reach out. 7. Avoid placing blame. 8. Love each other. 9. Seek information and support. There are no easy answers for couples dealing with pregnancy loss. It is crucial that you make the decision to put your marriage first and then do it! Hope is Like the Sun: Finding Hope and Healing After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, or Infant Death is available online at http://www.HopeXchange.com, Amazon.com and Barnes&Noble.com or by calling HopeXchange Publishing at 757-826-2162. Lisa Church is author of "Hope is Like the Sun: Finding Hope and Healing After Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Infant Death" and founder of HopeXchange, a company dedicated to helping women and their families facing miscarriage. To find miscarriage support and sign up for her FREE, monthly newsletter visit http://www.HopeXchange.com
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